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Breaking down stress: Mindfulness, breathing and yoga can beat back stress' side effects

Stress impacts not just our emotional being, but our bodies as well
By Diane Toroian Keaggy

Fitness expert Lynda Anderson, an instructor at the South 40 Fitness Center at Washington University in St. Louis, demonstrates simple breathing techniques and stretches proven to reduce stress.

This is the third in a series of stories looking at stress. Next up: the science behind how stress affects our health. To read other articles in the series, visit here.

The car needs gas. What’s for dinner? The boss looks likes a banana in that yellow sweater. Every day, some 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts move through our brains. Some are meaningful; most are mundane. But for those who suffer from chronic stress and anxiety, the conveyor belt of daily thoughts can be terrifying.

Tips for a stress-free holiday from Thomas Brounk, PhD, director of mental health services at the Habif Health and Wellness Center

Hold realistic expectations.

The holidays are supposed to be this happy, jolly time and when we don’t have that Hallmark holiday, we feel the holidays are not as special as they're supposed to be. Give yourself and your family a break and avoid demanding so much from the season.

Focus on wanting what you get, not getting what you want.

Practice gratitude every day. Each day, pay attention to something in your life that you are grateful for. Make sure to pick something different every day and not just same three things.

Stop stressing out your wallet.

People want to give the very best, but if you don’t have the money, that causes a lot of stress. So think about how you can give gifts that are more personal. A short poem or note that reflects your feelings for someone can bring immense happiness to that person.

Take a timeout.

Find that escape hatch and take a breather when family stress mounts. And don’t give that nasty relative the power to ruin your holidays. If you are with a family member who is always critical, expect the jab. Then, when it comes, it won’t throw you off your game. You can just say, “Oh, there it is,” and move on.

“I see students who go from, ‘If I don’t stay up all night, I won’t get an A’ to ‘If I don’t get an A, I won’t get into graduate school’ to “If I don’t get into graduate school my hopes and dreams will be ruined,’” said Ginny Fendell, mental health promotion associate at the Habif Health and Wellness Center at Washington University in St. Louis. “You see people propel themselves so quickly into this life of failure with just their thoughts. And your body doesn’t differentiate between real and imagined, so your heart rate increases and your fight-or-flight reaction gets activated. You are experiencing a physical stress reaction to something that hasn’t even happened.”

Stress is not a deadline or a holiday. It’s how we react to a deadline or a holiday. In other words, whenever the demands of a situation exceed our ability to cope, we experience stress -- that surge of adrenaline and cortisol that makes our hearts race and our stomach seize. This hormonal fight-or-flee reaction was the body’s gift to our early ancestors, who needed to act fast when confronted with a raging bush fire or hungry hyena. Today, however, stress has evolved into a chronic condition. And this constant state of stress is taking its toll — not only on our emotional well-being, but our bodies as well.

“Stress can lead to conditions ranging from insomnia to irritable bowel syndrome to panic attacks to headaches,” said Thomas Brounk, PhD, director of mental health services at the Habif Center. “The bad news is most of us are never taught how to cope with stress. The good news is it’s never too late to learn.”

Developing good sleeping and eating habits, exercising regularly, getting a massage — all of these practices, and many more, can help. But experts also believe the simple act of being present, or mindfulness, also can counteract stress, especially during the stressful holiday season.

“Let’s face it, when most of us get stressed, we’re thinking about something in the past we can’t change or something potentially in the scary future,” said Kathryn Liszewski, a research scientist on the faculty at Washington University School of Medicine who has written about stress in her book, Why Worry? Stop Coping and Start Living. “Learning to live and appreciate the present moment is an antidote to stress. But it also requires living mindfully and changing unproductive habits.”

Fendell offers a mindfulness bootcamp, free to all WUSTL students, where participants learn simple meditation and breathing techniques. Research shows that meditation can slow down both our heart and respiration rates.

“Students want a natural tool; they don’t want to take a pill,” Fendell said. “But they also want a quick, easy strategy that works. So learning to drop into the present through your breath is something that’s really effective. The great thing about it is, your breath is always with you; you don’t need to light a candle or to sit cross-legged in a special room.”

Fendell meditates for 30 minutes twice a day. That may seem like a long time, but she considers it “mental hygiene.”

“You wouldn’t skip taking a shower or brushing your teeth,” said Fendell, who has been meditating for 28 years. “Even with all of the things we have to do, there are some things we just get done and, for me, meditating is one of those things. It’s like hitting control-alt-delete on your computer; it refreshes everything. That doesn’t mean I don’t experience stress; I just don’t let it accumulate.”

Kathryn Tristan’s 5-minute mental marinade

  1. Place both hands over your heart and close your eyes.
  2. Slowly take five very deep breaths.
  3. Think of five things that are right about your life and for which you are grateful.
  4. Focus on someone you love or something you love to do and marinate in that feeling a few minutes.
  5. Take five more deep breaths, open your eyes and enjoy feeling totally refreshed.

Liszewski, who writes under the named Kathryn Tristan, suffered from crippling stress for years. She was like so many of the students Fendell sees today — quick to let her thoughts take her to a terrible place.

“It started for me in college. Young people don’t always realize when the stress is building up,” Liszewski said. “I kept adding more and more, and one day, I suddenly started feeling afraid, and my heart started racing. It was my first panic attack.”

She changed her diet, added exercise, learned how to challenge negative thoughts and reconnected to her spirituality. Breathing also played a role. Today, she practices diaphragmatic, or belly, breathing as well as meditation. Other simple strategies, such as smiling or focusing on what is right about a situation, also reduce her stress.

“Whether you’re happy or not, studies show the act of smiling can reduce stress,” Liszewski said. “Its a stimulus-response thing — when my muscles move this way, I have these emotions. It doesn’t take long to change your biochemistry once you are aware that you can do so.”

Fendell acknowledges some stress is good — it can motivate us to take care of pressing problems. And yes, sometimes it’s not just our thoughts that are terrible; it’s real life. She tells students not to stress out about their stress.

“Have a little bit of self-compassion for your emotions,” Fendell said. “We, as adults, believe we are supposed to have total control over our emotions and thoughts. We don’t. We can only control our behavior.”

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